Becoming Her: Learning to Release What Blocks Your Blessings

By Colleeno Chippy

Becoming Her: Learning to Release What Blocks Your Blessings


By Colleeno Chippy



Introduction


There comes a moment in every woman’s life when she realizes that the version of herself she is becoming cannot coexist with certain habits, certain thoughts, certain relationships, and certain fears. Growth always requires release. Elevation always demands surrender. And stepping into your “her” era — the woman God intended you to be — means letting go of everything that blocks your blessings, shifts your identity, or keeps you tied to cycles you’ve already outgrown.


Becoming her isn’t just about transformation. It’s about release.


Releasing Begins With Awareness


You cannot change what you refuse to acknowledge. Many of the blockages in your life didn’t start externally — they started internally. Old wounds. Negative self-talk. Guilt you shouldn’t still carry. The fear of being “too much” or “not enough.” These things quietly shape your decisions, limit your potential, and dim your glow.


Awareness is your first breakthrough. Once you see the pattern, you can break it.


Letting Go of What You Outgrew Is Self-Respect


Some things don’t fit your spirit anymore, not because they are bad, but because you are becoming better. The places that once felt comfortable now feel tight. The people who once felt familiar now drain your peace. The habits you once entertained now feel misaligned.


Letting go is not rejection — it is self-respect. It is acknowledging that your future is calling you louder than your past.


Healing Makes Space for Blessings


Blessings require room. Healing clears that room. When you release the hurt, bitterness, resentment, insecurity, or anger you’ve been carrying, you free up emotional and spiritual space for the abundance you’ve been praying for.


Healing isn’t weakness. It’s wisdom. It tells the universe, “I am ready to receive without sabotaging.”


Replacing Old Patterns With Elevated Habits


Release is not just about removing — it’s also about replacing. If you remove fear, replace it with faith. If you remove self-doubt, replace it with affirmations. If you release procrastination, replace it with structure.


The woman you’re becoming needs new habits that reflect her worth, her vision, her discipline, and her divine identity.


Your Blessings Are Already Aligned — You Just Have to Match Them


Your blessings are not lost. They are not delayed. They are waiting for you to step into the version of yourself who can carry them. Alignment is what unlocks abundance. When you release what no longer belongs, you energetically rise to the level where your blessings have been sitting all along.


Becoming her is not a destination — it is a daily choice.


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Conclusion


Releasing what blocks your blessings isn’t just about letting go — it’s about rising higher. It is stepping boldly into the woman God designed you to be. It is detaching from what drains you and embracing what develops you.


Becoming her requires courage, clarity, and commitment. But the moment you choose release, your blessings begin to move. Your life becomes lighter. Your path becomes clearer. And your spirit becomes aligned with everything you once thought was out of reach.


You are becoming her — beautifully, boldly, powerfully.


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Hi, I'm Colleeno Chippy – a Mom, a Writer/Author , entrepreneur, and believer in turning life’s toughest moments into stepping stones for healing and growth. Through this blog, I share powerful stories, motivational insights, and practical tools to help others rise above challenges and live purposefully. Whether it's embracing self-care, navigating grief, finding faith in dark moments, or simply learning to trust your journey.

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